In my last post one of my secrets was: "I wish that Eddy would just decide if he wants to be gay or not."
I knowwww that it is not a decision. I really, really get that.
But right now while he definitely is
gay, he is not acting
gay in the truest sense of the word. And while he has pledged to remain committed to our marriage, is that fair to ask of him? Is it even fair to ask him to stay married?
I really don't believe that people should sacrifice any part of themselves for another person.
Let me change secret #18 to this: "I wish that Eddy would embrace himself as a gay person, whatever that means, love himself, and experience what life is supposed to be for him." or the short version "I wish that Eddy would be
But it is not that so easy.
Labels: the gay thing